It seems to me you are using all these things to avoid going to therapy. Unless that's the only time you can go to the gym, then that's not a good excuse. A cute girl about whom you know nothing is also not a good excuse to skip therapy. Money is if that's really the reason.

On the other hand presumably nothing says you have to go to therapy at all; you don't need excuses. It's completely your decision of what's best for you--not ours.