<font color="purple"> ((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))) </font>

I am sorry that you are having to deal with immature sibling rivalry at this time in your life..... as you need to be just as much a part of your father's death as you were in his life and your brother still seems to be trying to get all of dad's attention and love (like he probably did in child hood) - that which we expect to see from a five year and not that of a thirty something year old man.

Please try and relax your emotions and mind as much as you can - breath often and take short walks if you can when your brother stresses you..... for if I know any thing about you I would say that you still desire to have an intact relationship with your brother after your father passes.