Wow Kimmy, I understand where you are coming from. Many times it is our expectations or the expectations of others that cause hurt. It is so difficult not to have expectations. All relationships would be better if no one expected anything because we could not be hurt as much. I think it is very wise to realize when our "well is dry" rather then pushing until we have nothing left for our own sanity. Sometimes people feel the world revolves around them, sometimes we are guilty for their belief. If these people are that selfish it is best if we can to accept it rather then feel guilty that we cant give even more.