“Falling in love “, feels great , until you hit the ground ! When one promises to “ just be yours “ , and you promise to “ just be theirs “ , both are promises that are rarely kept. Why do we act like we “ own” the other person , like they are a piece of property ? It’s idealism. The reality is that many people “ fall out of love “ just because of being human. I can’t expect anyone to love me “ forever “.
Unfortunately at some point I will let them down. They will let me down.
Life is like the game of chess. You make a move , one out of many possible moves , and then life makes a move. The variables are astronomical. The best chess players think MANY moves ahead in anticipation of what is sure to come.
Love is a beautiful thing , and then life gets in the way. Unfortunately many people, including myself, lack the wisdom, at any age , to understand the fundamental truths behind reality.