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Originally Posted by Solnutty
Aw, well I'm glad to know how you are really doing regardless of good or bad, because I care.
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Sincere thanks. I don't know if I don't have enough of this in my life, or if it is my perception, but yeah, I feel like my value is tied to being at least 'ok'.
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Originally Posted by Solnutty
Sire spent another four days in hiding. He said it was like being in a dark hole. T helped him, and some of the other insiders helped too, so he's back out again. He told me a tiny bit about it and I'm fine with not knowing any more.
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I'm glad he got help. Got to tell you though, I simultaneously admire and am confuzzled by the 'I'm fine with not knowing any more". I don't know how to do that but suspect it would help in many cases.
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Originally Posted by Solnutty
Is it the same issue you mentioned that's hurting Sonseearae? Please don't feel obligated to answer. Only if it benefits you.
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Yes, same issue, though I am wondering if my own challenges lately have added to it. She has had some issues with my wife on occasion, but she has always quickly gotten over them. To be candid, I have been pulling back from my wife a bit lately and have been considering some...changes. Normally, if there was a crack in Sonseearae's armor of silence, she would break it with my wife first (she still will talk to me from the back of the bus where she is hiding), but now she is unwilling to invest in that friendship while I am uncertain as to our (my wife and my) path forward.
So yeah, the same issue but there is an further impediment to a way forward for her.