Thread: Why now?
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Old Oct 18, 2017, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006 View Post
it's hard to say definitively what the best course of action would be.

First, it's not everyday we meet someone that seems to click with us like you say. Just a fact of life that finding the right people to date, is never easy. For that reason it may be worth taking the chance.

But having said that you made a decision not to date for a reason. It is indeed something to consider because if you didn't feel ready then, you may not be now. Try to weed through all the excitement of meeting a potential mate and objectively look at whether you think it's something you're prepared for.

you've got to weigh the pros and cons. will you really be missing out on something important in life if you don't do this dating thing now?

Honestly I rarely meet any women that I would like to date or that would date me so more than likely I'd be taking the chance myself, but that's me.
Potential mate. Hardly at this point. I'm going to keep it in my pants as best I can.
She is pretty though.
After working out for 10 months I've had some offers and leering, moreso lately. I'm not bothered by it. I do enjoy the ego boost. I deliberately walk through the machines area at the gym very slowly before and after using the machines, with my headphones in but not on and listen to females talking to each other. I have a hearing range and sensitivity that the tests can't fool. What do you mean you heard something? I hear them operating the machine from under the headphones. I also intentionally bend over to tighten my shoes, slowly, and have heard grunting more than once. I really dig that. It's just fun.