For me it's a "one step forward then two steps back" It's a process I'm going though. I no longer wish to hold onto the hate for my abuser! My mother supports the abuser and seems to hold no remorse for what she's done in the name of taking sides..

I don't like her and don't feel like I love her most days. I try and remember that it's not my fault and they are responsible for their part.

I try to focus on my darling daughters, my genealogy work, my other hobbies I enjoy. If I don't, there are days where I feel I'd go out of my mind...