your title says so much, if I learned anything so far, its that is very true indeed and given a chance, I'd never go to therapy in the first place, i think it does more harm than good to most and its sad

i am very attached to mine and its only 6 months in, i get literally ill at the idea of never seeing him again someday. i can't even think about it. its by far the most painful topic for me. however he has said i can stay in touch when it happens

friendship is rare but it happens, don't let people tell you it can't, it does and it can its just that if you do, you can't see them again in the future and you have to be ok with all they know about you. anyway idk why she changed her mind or why any do, the abrupt changes are awful and i feel for anyone experiencing them. i would for sure bring your concern to her