I just feel really confused about all this BPD thing,its really doing my head in trying to understand it and why wasnt I diagnosed sooner like 12 years ago when I first got put in the mental health unit (hospital) ? When I look back I ruined my relationship with my daughters dad due to the mood swings etc but no one diagnosed anything !Why do these health teams take so dam long in making a dianoses ? And after they do tell you whats wrong they give you no support as Im getting discharged any week now.They seem to think all you need is medication and you will be ok,I just feel dead inside with the pills I take every day.Im also finishing therapy any week too as she says there no such thing as BPD its just your way of dealing with life ! Eh ? So she cannot work with me anymore as Im so negative.