My sister-in-law called from Germany today. She asked husband when we are going to be coming to see her in Germany. My husband told her he doesn't know as he wants "me" to go to Argentina with our two kids (10, 4) to visit his mom. Over there during our summer it is winter and very very cold.....(I don't really know if I want to go). I'm feeling down because it seems that we are always the one who have to make movements...the mom could come here(just one plane ticket as oppose to me paying three plane tickets)...I understand that my husband wants his mother to enjoy her grandchildren....I feel guilty at times but at other times I feel "taken advantage of". We are not rich and are currently living off of one salary. Why can't they see?...If I voice it, I may look like a "Mean" person. So tonight I'm feeling weighed down.