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Old Oct 19, 2017, 10:29 PM
Anonymous45390
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Originally Posted by BillSamuels2 View Post
i never specified the gender of my spouse, i used neutral language, just as a side note. one should be careful not to make assumptions about people.

it doesn't just work to tell someone who fundamentally "believes" in non-monogamy as a philosophical point of view that it isn't what i want and they just accept that. i have told them that this isn't what i want. but a relationship is two people who have to reconcile such differences. what i'm wondering specifically is how i can approach this with keeping in mind that i need so much stability to manage my bipolar symptoms...

99Fairies was trying to be supportive and not expecting a “trap”

How is you plus “them” two people?

Sorry, I couldn’t resist, since you had to take a swing at someone in a support forum who was trying to be nice to you
Thanks for this!
99fairies, ~Christina