I've dealt with a long history of feeling as if I do not belong, because I am an artist, and never really 'fit into' many groups or small circles (sometimes even with other artists.). So I made up my mind very young that it doesn't matter that much. I was always very independent by nature, and have still managed to find others, who I consider wonderful friends, along the way.

I think this has been a kind of character-building thing for me. It's just always been there---so I outgrew it very quickly.

I do like the suggestion of finding hobbies and activities you can enjoy. I've even made friends I never thought I would in online groups, where we share interests in the same things (for me, it's been antiques, and art, and music.) Friendships can't help but happen when you share a love of something.

Is there anything you can think of that you want to know more about?