It is not trivia at all.
First and foremost, this is not a competition of who has it worse. Secondly, wanting to have real connections and lasting relationships is a very basic human desire. Things start going wrong when we lack it.
I dont know what the solution is because I don’t have any close friends or family. And, I have not had a significant other or any other romantic connection for over a decade now.
I have been learning how to enjoy my own company and embracing my solitude and it has been a wonderful voyage.
Yes, it is very difficult and I crave real connection and love and friendship. As a result, I am desperate to have it. Luckily, knowing this helps me not to act desperate.
Embrace your solitude and get to know your self. It is a very meaningful experience.