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Originally Posted by ciderguy
You’re right, unless fetishism become partialism but I’ve not run across many.
Oh - ‘vanilla sub’: someone who is only occasionally dominated, and never with a dom who might make commands beyond what the vanilla sub would naturally do. A ‘vanilla sub’ never experiences the pleasure of pain and would never consent to, e.g., the dom’s eight-man gangbang.
Just a vanilla sub.
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No I'm sorry I still don't understand this. It does not make ANY sense to me & ive been in the scene for awhile. This "definition" does not fit any long standing definitions of what bdsm is built on.
Maybe it's a regional term?.....or just a theory? Maybe you're thinking of TPE?
There's so many issues with just the term "vanilla sub". Their polar opposites actually. Let's not argue over definitions tho, I can see this getting difficult.