The rainbow flag flies at my house. I am the worst ally ever because I keep saying things that are in my head without correcting the language. "Them" is an accepted singular pronoun and that actually isn't new - "Just because someone is mean to you, doesn't mean you have to be mean to them."

I hurt feelings from making assumptions and using the wrong language. I am unintentionally invalidating them when I make assumptions as if CIS behavior is normal and anything else is abnormal. My kids don't let people slide either. They do it to increase awareness. Now having said that, it can be done without being snippy.

Back to the point. I draw the line with monogamy; it's a deal breaker for me. There is no half way. But that's just me and my opinion.