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Old Oct 20, 2017, 08:18 AM
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Originally Posted by captgut View Post
Thank you soooo much.
I always think my wishes, fantasies and so on are weird... bad... That I should be ashamed...
I'm glad that you can understand me.
Your desires and wishes etc are very human and very normal among those of us who've experienced emotional neglect. That whole longing for our pain to matter, for care and compassion and comfort *hugs*

ETA: the shame is very common too, especially as you've been emotionally deprived, shamed and maybe punished for these needs.
Thanks for this!
Spangle