Do things that don't cost money. Like walk in the park. But frankly if he is asking you out, are you paying for everything? Just your share? Did he ever offered to pay? I am for equality but I'd be suspicious if he at least doesn't offer to treat you (to museum tickets or lunch etc). You can also tell him that you are in a process of job search and need to take few weeks off dating. When I first met my husband we only saw each other every other week one evening because of conflicting schedules and long commutes. No biggie. If it's a right match things work out regardless