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Originally Posted by ruby2011
What happened was after the DM told me not to go in on my days off, I went in 3 times on my off days to
1. Request my supervisor to remember my birthday just like she did with that other girl. That’s when she asked for my caseworker’s number to give to corporate.
2. The next two times was to “reason” with her that I was only looking up to her. I even texted her as much after I couldn’t convince her.
I’m moving forward. And whether I lost my job or not, I woulda learned my lesson bc now I know that even family members don’t obsess over each other that way. My caseworker and counselor told me as much. Starting therapy regularly to work on this strong feelings.
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You have a strong will. Strong willed people do much in this world that is good. I am strong willed too. I have relied on that to get through some tough stuff. But . . . . we strong-willed people can be real pains in the @$$, when we want something and aren't getting it. Trust me - I've been there/done that.
People have rights. You can't demand that someone recognise your birthday. That's up to them. No one has to treat you exactly how they treat someone else. You can not like that, but that's just too bad.
You are insisting on having control over another person. That is a form of abuse.