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Originally Posted by stopchewinggum
I've learned to become very assertive about my own mental health care. If a T asks me to do homework, and it's something that I don't want to do. I will simply tell them the truth. I'm not rude about. I will be honest. This isn't something I would personally helpful, and as such, I would like some other form of treatment in it's place. That simple. I'm not being difficult. I'm being honest and assertive. I find most T's respect that.
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Yes. When my h and I were attending marriage counseling, t gave us both a suggestion for a workbook that we could do together, and I went home, looked at it and flat out (politely) refused.
It was for the best. I couldn't do that work with him, and I knew it.
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