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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
I can be of use, I can be “pleasant” to talk to, for a while. I can be a support, for a while. I’ve even been told I’ve saved peoples lives.
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That's so much.
I'm sorry it doesn't feel better right now.
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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
..... maybe they were lying to try to make me feel better. Yes that must be it.  |
I've always looked for something genuine when trying to make people feel better. They usually can sense even well-meaning insincerity and it backfires horribly. And it's not just me. That's what I hear and read about elsewhere. Maybe you could try to take it more at face value.
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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
Then most of them leave. They come back, sometimes, to speak to their “real friends”
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As far as I know that happens to everyone, even "popular" people. People come and go. They drift apart. It sucks. We should do better. But it isn't just you.
