Hi all. My psychiatrist wrote to my GP saying I feel the transsexual controlled and manipulated me. I take note of "feels" which implies feelings are not reality, leaves a question mark as to whether the transsexual actually controlled me. So I don't like the psychiatrists use of language because I said in consultation that the transsexual deceived me of his transsexual identity, was emotionally manipulative. Psychiatrist also says I felt that the transsexual was harassing me with calls and text messages. It is not a case of "felt" I did not say felt I said the transsexual had been harassing me. I have concrete evidence the transsexual was harassing me because I reported him to police and police verbally warned the transsexual to stop. I sent all the evidence to police and they took action. I emailed my care coordinator loads of times prior to psychiatrist appointment detailing what the transsexual said and done to me: emotional blackmail, emotional manipulation, guilt tripping, manipulation through loud crying spells, blame, lies, deceiving me of his transsexual identity by saying : we are all different down there, showing me his birth certificate which states born a girl. Emailed care coordinator about one hour of drama, crying and sobbing when I said I'm not coming to his house on Saturday and accused of misleading him by getting changed, fiddling with wire. That my refusal to go to his place was "as bad as his ex partner dying" and his stomping around my house in an angry fashion collecting his things and then later saying "I had no intention of leaving you or ending it" emailed care coordinator about many occasions when the transsexual threatened to end the relationship with me, frequently suggesting to end it and only until the unwanted emails, letters , voice messages did I realise the transsexual had absolutely no intention of leaving me or letting me go. Months Before I ended it, he said "I love you enough to let you go" I know that's all lies because he would not stop with letters and emails even when I said if you don't stop voice messages I'll call police. In those letters he tried to convince me to speak to him on phone saying one phone call is all I need I need to finalise things with you. None of it true because he later followed up with a letter saying he wanted to continue friendship with me and would support me financially. He actually thought he could buy my affection...and I emailed care coordinator about what I researched about narcissistic abuse a term called "baiting" designed to provoke angry aggressive responses. He was saying things like "my cat is my only friend" "I'm going to sleep downstairs " minutes later turning up and sleeping in same bed as me, left me questioning have I done something to upset him? He said I tried to make you cry because I've never seen you cry before. Interrogating me about my sexual experiences with men and accusing me of sleeping around in a threatening intimidating manner and then claiming "I did that because I wanted to get to the truth" my friend said he's a control freak and another friend said he's an emotional manipulator sociopath and support workers said "who's really in control?" And that the transsexual fed me a bunch of negatives as to why we should end the relationship leading me to believe it was over so I sat in silence , withdrawn and unresponsive to what I was hearing, then he said "why don't you fight to save the relationship?" He was also pressuring me into seeing him saying he'd struggled to cope with my lack of contact over a 6 day period. I said I'll meet him half a day once a week he said he couldn't cope with that and we should end it

I don't want to cause confrontation with my psychiatrist or make things uncomfortable between us or appear disrespectful but I have concrete evidence of the transsexuals harassment and emotional manipulation and control. Where the psychiatrist says "feels" the transsexual harassed and controlled and manipulated me is inaccurate. I don't know what to do whether I should address this with the psychiatrist at next appointment or to write her a letter outlining why what she said is wrong and inaccurate or whether I should contact administration to ask for it to be changed because I don't want to appear a difficult patient but actually I feel she has invalidated my experience despite concrete evidence. There's also a worry she might refuse for me to have access to my notes as her letters to GP in future if I raise this issue with her. Please advice. Thanks very much for reading. It would be greatly appreciated