I read both articles. It sounded a lot like me, especially since the stalker also seemed to have only good intentions. Whoever they stalked understood that completely and was still completely turned off. Now I see why my supervisor didn’t like it even though she understood my intentions.

However, what differs is the stalker in these posts has no friends or relationship outside of whoever she’s obsessed with. Besides my supervisor, I had friends at work and outside of work. All my coworkers accepted me. In the end, Some even tried to explain how my stalking is affecting my supervisor.

And at my other job, when I was there the first time around, my coworkers accepted me. That still didn’t stop me from obsessing over my supervisor. I don’t know why I still obsess over that one person even though I experienced far less rejection than the girl in the 2 posts. Idk why I even need a center.

Maybe anyone would need a center if they were called stupid all their lives at home. Or unfavorably compared to other kids. My teachers had criticized me but only to the extent they criticized my classmates. They never called me stupid or put me down. Still, I never stalked or obsessed over anyone before graduating high school. Then I started obsessing over whoever I happen to look up to once I started working.