bioChe, Giving everyone equal rights doesn't make you have less rights. It's not pie. I am straight, white and male. I realize that all 3 of those things do have privilege. That doesn't make me a bad person; I didn't cause the world to be like it is today. But I can try to make it different for my kids and I should feel a responsibility to do what I can to make sure it is different tomorrow. So no one is blaming you for having privilege; just hoping you will recognize it and not further that mindset is all.