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Originally Posted by Spangle
I’m so sorry that your t is not validating your feelings. By her being like this, she is isolating you further. Although you feel that you are very attached to your t, she is not able to support you as you need to be supported. Is it not worth trying to find another t? This is who you are & you are being true to yourself, you deserve better. Please carry on looking.  |
No, as I shared, I am not up for switching. It takes too much of a toll to find someone who can deal with my other issues. So it's either this one or I quit altogether.
To be clear--she is accepting of who I am; it's just that she doesn't understand how it is to be in this world if you are not one of the sexuals. So in her attempt to "normalize" who I am, it feels invalidating.