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Old Oct 21, 2017, 04:11 PM
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Originally Posted by ruby2011 View Post
I honestly don’t feel anything for anyone anymore. I’m on break at my remaining job right now but I just keep distance from others. In fact, I doubt I’d ever get close to anyone ever again. That’s my actual feeling.

This is not an approach that will benefit you. You aren’t getting what YOU want hence choosing to not deal with the problem at hand.
This is an extreme reaction just like your opposite, yet equally extreme, behavior of ‘looking up to’ people, stalking them and crossing boundaries and pushing them to unacceptable levels.
I strongly suggest that you focus on addressing the challenges created by you while learning how to develop and maintain relationships that consist of healthy boundaries.
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