( The following is just based on personal experience , may or may not, mean anything).) I found that “ looking for love “ is a very difficult thing to do. I believe that we “ find love “ through an incidental interaction with that person. Life is made up , from conception, of moments interacting with the laws of probability. Chance.
There are so many variables that it’s probably impossible to calculate.
But you may say , wait a minute, the great “I “ make decisions on my own !
Do you really ? All decisions you make are based on the accumulation of millions of other smaller or larger factors. Life leads us by the nose ! Yet we think we are in control. If something is meant to happen it will happen. We are social animals. But look what happens when we get close to any other human being. We will have some comfort but I guarantee that the pain part is on the way. In some shape or form. Ok , so what does all of this mean in English ! Live for the moment. Learn to love yourself before anyone else. Establish some self esteem.
Do what makes you feel good , ( as long as you’re not hurting anyone else).
We come into this world alone and we will go out of it alone. Everything in between is just what it is , life , unfolding, moment by moment.