Hmm.... I'm having a hard time understanding your last few posts, but it seems (from my perspective) that it's best to stick to your original stance and take the time to heal from your last relationship. When we are not yet healed, it is much harder to "be" in the next relationship, and typically it's a rebound. Opportunities will come again when the time is right. The universe delivers the next person to our door when we are ready. Until then, live your life, work on healing, and do the things you enjoy. Also, try not to go to such extremes based on this experience, ie, I will never trust anyone again. The internet is full of trollers, if this woman was a troll. It just means you have to be careful and proceed with caution, especially when meeting someone online.

(((hugs))))