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Originally Posted by Tbhimscared
My T is always about 10 minutes last to our appointments. They’re free so I’m not losing money I’ve spent, but it’s still frustrating when I show up early and wait about 20 minutes to go in. She’ll usually go over time by about 5mins or so though, so maybe her clock in her office is just slow and she doesn’t realize it. She’s a new T too and maybe she takes longer to get ready before a session and loses track of time, I’m not sure. Do you think this is worth bringing up? Has this happened to you before?
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I definitely think you should bring it up. My t used to be late every time. He would text to let me know, but like you, I was already there early & waiting. I started to make sarcastic comments to him when I got into his room. After a few weeks of that, I asked him if he was late for everyone’s appointments, or was I the ‘lucky’ one. Then we talked about how him being late, made me feel. He’s not late as much now. It was good for me to talk about lateness with people because it’s something I can’t stand & have limited tolerance for (although I am working on it)