View Single Post
 
Old Oct 22, 2017, 12:28 PM
Spangle's Avatar
Spangle Spangle is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: Sep 2017
Location: Somewhere out there
Posts: 1,100
Quote:
Originally Posted by InnerPeace111 View Post
I think your situation is complicated by the fact that your sessions are free - you are not paying for them. This is where things can get quite muddled. If I were in this situation, I wouldn’t say anything at all. I would continue to arrive in time for sessions (or even early) and I’d use that waiting time to my advantage. I’d write in my journal, read a book or magazine, fiddle around on my phone, meditate, grade papers (I’m a teacher), update my calendar, etc.
I tend to disagree with you in that, just because the sessions are free, shouldn’t mean that a t can abuse an agreement & behave in an unprofessional way. That t has agreed to meet at a particular time on a particular day, so without anything else, it’s rude. It sends the message that because you are getting sessions for free, you’re not worth me taking too much time & trouble over & you should be grateful for what you get. Or, as I said to my t.....oh, it’s only me & I guess I’m not worthy of your time then.
Thanks for this!
Anonymous45127, East17, feileacan, lucozader, Myrto