I’m in the same situation. My son is 15 now . My husband has BP also. He’s the only driver in the house. He volunteers at co-ops so my son can hang out with friends. My husband runs my son to school and all of us to our many Dr’s appointments. My husband says he’s a web developer when asked. He doesn’t like leaving me at home due to my paranoia and delusions. He worries I’ll hurt myself or I’d be afraid the whole time he’s gone. So often I go with him.