((((( Silvia )))))
I think this is one of those situations where time, patience and much love will help to heal things. It's definitely a situation where much can be learned from and applied to life. I'm so sorry this is so difficult for you and all involved.
I hope that you can find a place of refuge to recharge yourself and come to terms with what life has thrown your way. I'm sorry I don't have any other ideas for you to think about. But know that I care and I wish for you and your family some healing times and much love.
Take good care!

sabby