I've never hugged my T either, I sometimes think it's something I'd really want. Just tat extra bit of support. I've even hinted at it a Couple of times but she's not taken the hint, well I'm pretty sure she has but probably knows I don't take rejection so well. I think she is probably waiting for me to maybe ask, but I know the answer is going to be no, so I just left it and hope oneday she will surprise me!