(((SELFY))). I am sorry that you are struggling at this time. One of the hardest things to give up is the need to care and help others, and keep them from harm. Unfortunately things have to happen in life that makes you the person you are to be in the future. Everyone feels a sends of guilt when someone we care for gets hurt or one reason or another, but being sympathetic should Not endager your recovery if at all possible. Your main goal is to stay stable yourself, and not try to take on too much if you are not in a stable situation yourself or feel that you are getting triggered yourself into a harmful situation emotionally. The best thing you can do for someone with emotional issues is send them to a professional, so you dont have to take on all the guilt, and you can feel that you have done the BEST thing that you can do for the person in need. Take care Selfy. Soidhonia