thanks for your replies ~
as it turns out - my soon to be DIL thinks they are so cute - so whew ..lol ..was kinda sweating that out.
It is hard for me to shop and make decisions because of the other ones inside of me like to shop too .. sometimes i catch it - look in my basket and just stop .. leave it and go home .. gets over whelming at times.
i dont know why i cannot control them - they come out when they want - do what they want . How do you know when they are out? This is the hardest part for me is the not knowing .. i really dont even know them .. totally apart from me.