I agree with the advice given above, but as for if and/or when you get some new diagnosis, that really depends on the doctor. Know that if the doctor thinks you've diagnosed yourself, they may want to really be sure you're not exaggerating anything. Not that you would. Heck, I don't know you. But I know some people have. Honestly, bipolar disorder is not exactly a winning diagnosis. The medications can be a real pain in the butt. In the end, you just want to resolve your psychiatric issues. If it is bipolar, then I certainly hope you get the right dx and medications that really help you.

I've only ever gone into an IOP if my psychiatrist thinks I need very Intensive therapy and doctor supervision (3 days per week). Hospitalizations are very serious. If you're not in crisis, then you probably won't go unless you need to major detox from drugs or alcohol before starting new medications.