These aren’t kind of men you should worry about or waste your time on. No point asking why they behave this way. It’s becayse that’s who they are

To all honesty when you said that the guy works in porn industry (he likely not, but says to see how you react and in hopes he either gets laid or can make fun of a woman or degrade her), I knew he’ll send his pic and ask for yours and this isn’t going to be respectful conversation. And I was right. Not only he said what he does before Even meeting you (for obvious reason) but he also sent you pic of his privates and you thought that’s ok because it’s his job and you even asked him more questions (not seeing big red banners not just flags)!

Somehow you expected something different? I think you might have to work on recognizing red flags (my therapist was helpful with that).

You are talking to low class men but expect high class behavior from them. It’s not happening.

Makes me think of a tale about scorpion and a frog, “that’s what scorpions do”. Makes me think of how I was in a relationship with alcoholic expecting him not drink. Yeah ok. Was stupid of me

I am glad that other guy sounds polite. Forget about other ones