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Old Oct 23, 2017, 08:03 PM
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I have a similar feeling. I think some T’s care more than others. We are there to seek help and/or fulfill a need. I think when we share so much and they show empathy we can easily interpret that in so many ways. Ultimately, they are there because that’s their job. There are so many times that I think how crazy am I to spend as much money as I do in a week to talk to someone that I mean absolutely nothing to. I sometimes feel like a fool because I feel like I’m renting a “friend”.
Yeah, I feel like I'm renting a friend sometimes too! It's pathetic! I pay $100 a week for that. But my T is there for me in ways friends are not, and I know she cares. I do mean something to her! She wouldn't lie about it. But she cares because I'm her job. She once said we wouldn't know each other if she weren't my T. That's obvious, I know. I always remember what my first T said about our relationship. It's different from friendship or any other relationship, but different does not make it LESS! Still, the whole situation sucks, I agree!!
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