Thanks, AY. I actually did tell her (last week, in fact) what I would specifically like her to say and she said she had said that, was sorry I didn't hear it, and then added something that changed the meaning. She is super frustrated, and I suspect pretty effing angry, which is why she gave me the name of the sex shop doctor--something she has to know is not going to work for so many reasons. I will let this blow over, and let it fester and rot inside like a normal person would do. Maybe try to take up drinking. I have never been successful at it, but maybe I haven't found the right product.