Have we talked under another name? Seems like you know me. The week before makes me run through the routine we were going through before it happened. I can remember what happened each day. How worried I was about him on so many levels, he had a kidney removed a couple of weeks prior. He had been through a lot in that past coupe of years. 1st colon cancer, then they found cancer in the prostrate at that time, then they found the kidney cancer a little later. He had a rough time and just didn't enjoy life anymore. He didn't want to be a burden to anyone. But he had made it through so much...why give up now?