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Oct 23, 2017, 10:05 PM
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Originally Posted by scaredandconfused
As soon as someone sends a picture of their private parts before even meeting you in person, any expectation of classy behaviour should go out the window. His following behaviour was not at all surprising and it seems pretty obvious what he wanted. Some glaring red flags went unnoticed here.
Also, wouldn't you prefer that a guy was straightforward with what he wanted rather than pretending to be interested, sleeping with you, then leaving? At least he was honest about his intentions from the get-go, and there isn't necessarily anything wrong with wanting dirty pictures if both parties are in agreement.
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No glaring red flags went unnoticed. You guys act like I met up with him or had a long conversation with him or something. The second he demanded pics from me the conversation was over. How is that missing red flags?! Are you kidding me? Missing the red flag would have been meeting up with him or continuing to talk with him. You guys certainly like to slut shame.
And no, a guy sending you a nude pic does not mean they are automatically going to demand one from you. I've had perfectly fine conversations with guys who did that, and when I called them on it they apologized and that was that.
You're still missing the bigger point that these men send disgusting messages that are completely unwarranted and it's degrading.
Let's all continue the proverbial slut shaming.
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