Therapy with my current t seems to be running up against limitations. Even ones I did not think of. Sometimes the boundary seems fuzzy and he feels like a friend. I know he can't be. Last week he hurt me a little by saying I dress to be invisible. The more we talked about it we stumbled into odd territory. At one point said he can't go shopping with me and help me with a makeover because it crosses boundaries. I told him that I don't think I was asking for that??? It is strange how some things are not boundaried and some oddball thing I didn't ask for is somehow off limits? So yeah I wish he were my friend because is is just so so as a therapist.