I'm not sure there are many nice people out there. I know feeling lonely far too well myself. I was married and still lonely. I'm lonely now. Somebody finds out how low I am and they're just interested in exploiting it. I don't want to go to bars because I don't want to drink. I don't go to church because I don't share that belief. I don't trust dating sites because they're full of predatory people. I don't look at the gym much because I don't want to ruin the gym. So where do I find that one special girl? I don't. The only answer I can come up with is that I won't. I relinquish my desire for another, regardless of how I feel. People mostly suck and will just hurt me more.