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Originally Posted by lovethesun
Divine, thanks for your concern. Believe it or not, I actually am one who avoids conflicts if I can help it. If I have to engage in a conflict with someone, it's because they forced my hand. And I will always stand up for myself. The not wishing me a happy birthday is, I believe, a symptom of the larger problem that is their mother. She has proven many times over the years to be a bully, oftentimes using the silent treatment as one of her weapons. I understand people forget others birthdays. My point was that I was not so sure they "forgot" in this instance. I feel they were "told" not to acknowledge me since they have always been very good at remembering me and others birthdays for that matter over the years. So my decision as to whether or not to cease communication was based more on that.
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I’d probably contact your nieces and see what’s up. It’s really dumb if they stop talking to you because of their mother conflict with you.
But then come think of it I once had a conflict with my dad that lasted for almost year (my dad is very very toxic) and my daughter was so upset on my behalf that she didn’t communicate with grandpa for long time. It’s fine now, but at the time my daughter had opinion that she won’t put up with people upsetting her mother.
The best in my opinion is to contact them and find out for yourself what’s going on