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Old Oct 24, 2017, 07:53 AM
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Originally Posted by anais_anais View Post
((Demunie)) I did this also.... if you consider it carefully and that's what you have to do, then that's what you have to do, but don't let anyone pressure you. I don't regret it but I really wasn't expecting the pain of losing what little support I had from my family completely (I thought I could cut off my dad only and maintain the other familial connections but they had a different outlook) and the social stigma that comes with not having a family, at least in my country, is massive. I have to confront it in nearly every conversation I have with people since asking about one's family is a very popular topic when you are getting to know someone. I'm still struggling with this-- it's really brought out my self-isolating tendencies.
Thx. I'm sorry you're still struggeling with this - It's not an easy topic and having to confront it in nearly every discussion must be exhausting.

It's awful that the other parts of your family cut you off too - Do you know what their reasoning is? (You don't have to answer of course)

The stigma here is massive too I think. I'm already weird for not going back to my parents every f... weekend.
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