HAH pink i thought the exact same thing about sister's question.

Yea, my brilliant mind always just says "nothing." or the even better, "i don't know." and if i'm feeling particularly resistant...just a shoulder shrug.

This is a good thread...what else can we say to T when they ask what we are thinking, and we really don't know! Usually i'm thinking about what to say to break the horrible silence, but that's not something i've told her i was thinking about.