I’m curious: what relationship “fairytales” were you were sold on as a youngster and what happened to burst that bubble?

One of them for me was realizing that being married could not “fix” me and that my husband was only human, not a super hero. Oh yeah, and there is no such thing as a “soulmate”.

Still married after 3 decades - we still like each other lol! He really is a great guy.