I wouldn't bring in my wife on a first visit.(at least until later in the visit.) No matter how close and loving you are, you are likely to have at least slightly different memories and opinions of events, which confuses things. Especially on an appointment designed to diagnose you. If I were a doctor I wouldn't prescribe serious medicines on a first visit--I would want time to consider things you've said and his thoughts and the self-diagnosis you've made (not questioning it necessarily)--but I would schedule a second appointment very soon.