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Originally Posted by rdgrad15
Oh I agree with you and the other posters. Yes you were definitely mistreated. What your friend did was very rude and immature. She should have said something. I've had people do this to me and I find it very rude and it even caused me to lose respect for people who have done this to me in the past. Like you said, I'd rather someone get mad at me and say it to my face than flat out ignore me. It may not be pleasant, but at least I would know why they are mad or what is wrong. Someone who just simply doesn't respond after pretending like everything is okay is just freaky since you don't know if they are mad or if something bad happened. I'm sorry she did this to you. You deserve better and I'd be more cautious of her from now on.  |
Thank you.
Although I made up with her and I let her know that it was not okay what she did, today I felt some anger coming on. Built up anger that kind of creeped up on me. It wasn't while talking to her. It was just me lost in thought, that I've been striking out with friends and people a lot lately. It's especially bad that it was a few people close to me lately. Something that makes me especially upset after finding out that I was given the silent treatment, is that I really was scared something happened to her, and it really hurts when people seem to feel empowered by my suffering. I know it's extreme for me to interpret her silence that way....but that's how she made me feel.
I lost my best friend in the whole world to cancer 2 years ago. I had a traumatic breakup with my ex fiance, who was my other best friend, right before that. So loss is scary for me when it comes to friends and people in my closest circle, but everything seems to be falling apart.