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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
She hasn’t said anything damaging or even that tone-deaf. Our biggest conflict was she likes to use the word “story” in relation to traumatic events (“the story you tell yourself”), which to me implies fiction or a self-created narrative...when what I’m telling her us very real.
I would not, however, describe her as actively helpful. Her stuffed bear is often more helpful than she is.
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That would annoy me too, the story thing. Maybe that is just one of her weird things she just says but doesn't actually mean that you are fabricating it or making it seem worse in your head than the actual reality of it. I hope.
Now that I think about it, I am not sure my T is very actively helpful either. I am not sure how I would define that, though. Hmmmm.