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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
She hasn’t said anything damaging or even that tone-deaf. Our biggest conflict was she likes to use the word “story” in relation to traumatic events (“the story you tell yourself”), which to me implies fiction or a self-created narrative...when what I’m telling her us very real.
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This story business would bug the crap out of me.
I'd find it incredibly invalidating.
And, the arsehole that I am, I would then immediately question the genuineness of her empathy, such as it is.